MAN/SPECTIVE

From a young age, how to receive and respond to advances, compliments and admiration is engraved into women. Their selection process is well-drilled into them, and it is usually centred around the word NO.

Before you do anything for her, her answer is NO. Even before taking into account how she feels about you, it's a NO. It is then when a value-based selection process comes into play. You have to prove what nature of benefits she will gain from you. Thus out of 5 advances, she is likely to be receptive to one. If she doesn't have the 'stop and select quality,' we have a label for her, "Loose".

What makes it different for men?

Men are not used to receiving attention and admiration because they usually give it. To them, it is a foreign concept they view with the highest level of fascination. When it does happen, he will likely want to explore. 'Let's see how it goes'.

To most saying 'NO' is hard. Men might not actively participate in their marination. But I guarantee you they will tolerate and give it brooding room. Even if the lady coming onto them is not doing anything special or out of the ordinary.  But that concealed intent is what keeps the guy rolling his dice, taking a gamble.

So now, when the guy naturally draws attention either with his looks, deep pockets or charisma, they are bound to see a fair share of women knocking on his door for various reasons on their part. Since 'NO' is not a possibility, men open the door with no resistance. That's when you then wonder, "what did he see in her?" It was probably nothing but her attention stroking his ego felt better than any imagined orgasm in any proper relationship. As men we tend to go through various women because they keep coming and knocking on our door, and we never shut it.